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Resources on Family History Research and People Search

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

Tracing names of ancestors has been a worthwhile hobby for most people in the United States today. Keeping track of their records will help you recognize them as you enjoy the benefits of reaching out for your relatives.

During the time when computer is still unavailable, it is very hard to collect names of our ancestors because we still have to do it manually. Enough time and money must be prepared to accomplish your family history record. The old-fashioned way of doing this task is to personally visit each relative or contact them by phone as you let them recall all those that they can possibly remember. And it may as well be rare to find records of birth or death certificates and marriage contracts preserved up to fifth generation. Some would need to visit various cemeteries to look for important dates and names of their relatives.

But presently, a new method takes place to give you a fast and more convenient research. That is by using the people search website which offers services that will link you through details you need to fill in for those missing information regarding your ancestors. It holds public papers that will serve as basis of familiarity that can greatly help you collect accurate data as many as possible within seconds.

It has been proven that completing your family tree is a satisfying achievement for most genealogists. With the help of the updated people search database, every interested individual can start to complete their pedigree charts and continue them up to their desired generations. With the latest online resources, you can manage to find communication with those living relatives without wasting too much money and energy.

Performing a genealogical research can make you feel more fulfilled by identifying where your family name has originated. It could be a great advantage if important documents are still kept in tact by your parents. But due to some circumstances, these may not be available for other researchers. SoArticle Search, the goal of people search website is to give you all the accurate information that you possibly need to finish your family history files.

Scrapbook Research Project

Saturday, February 7th, 2009

Researching your own background and gathering all the information you need to be able to add all the details of your life will be good information you can use for researching and making scrapbooks for anyone else.

You may decide to be a professional scrapbooker or do a scrapbook as a present for a parent. Whatever the reason researching for yourself will give you a lot of experience and if you find you really enjoy it you may want to look into doing this for others as well.

Let’s get started. The first thing you need to do is organise in chronological order all important documents such as birth certificate, marriage certificate etc. You should be able to get certified copies of original documents by calling or e-mailing the records offices. If you call the clerk’s office of the county in which you were born you should be able to get this. For details of how to find this office try Googling for this information.

Get a three-ring binder and list facts that you are aware of about your life. Dates and years of schools attended. The addresses you have lived at, parent’s names and occupations. Include your mother’s maiden name. All these facts will jog your memory when you get around to starting to write the story. For now be content with the outline details and get as much written down as you can remember.

The three-ring binder can be divided up for infancy to 12, teenage years and adult life. Include in each section page protectors where you can store any memorabilia, documents and photos (be certain the photos do not face each other.You may want to have a page for each year so that you can add more information as you remember it.

Remember to work with copies of photos and important documents rather than originals in the scrapbooks.

Writing a personal history might be something other members of your familly and friends might want to do. You could get them started. At family gatherings make notes of things people say and incorporate times and dates for the scrapbook. If you ask a question be sure to make a note of the answer without interrupting.

Letters are a wonderful resource for scrapbooks. Be sure to keep these and have them displayed in the scrapbook pages. They are usually full of inspiration and ideas that will delight generations to come.

You may want to keep an interview notebook for different age groups. One for adultsPsychology Articles, another for children and different questions for teenagers. Your questions for adults might be along the following lines:

1. What do you consider to be the most important lesson you have learned in life?

2. How did you become interested in your hobbies?

3. At what age did you decide on your career path? Did you decide to do something else and if so what changed your mind? Why?

4. Have you been camping and did you enjoy it? Why?

These will be interesting to all the family and a great resource for years to come. Learning new things about scrapbooking means you can constantly make them better and more informative for all who look at them.

How To Use The Census In Your Genealogy Research

Wednesday, January 14th, 2009

You’ve gone through the preliminaries. You’ve collected all your household vital records, interviewed relatives, gathered additional records from living relatives and followed-up on some of the leads that were developed. Now, you’re stuck and not sure what to do next in your genealogy research.

If you’ve worked your way far enough back, it might be time to start checking the Census.

But first, you’ll want to understand that while the Census Bureau collects some great genealogical information, it has the responsibility of confidentiality. As a result, the Decennial Census of Population and Housing on individuals does not become available to the public until after 72 years. That’s why you have to have worked your way far enough back in your research before you’ll find the Census helpful.

But here’s what you’ll really like … not only will the Census records help you locate where an acestor lived, after 1840 the Census collected age, place of birth, occupation, personal wealth, education, spouse, children, hired hands, and even immigration information. A gold mine for genealogists.

Copies of the original decennial census forms from 1790 through 1930 are available on microfilm for research at the U.S. National Archives and Records Administration in Washington, DC (http://www.archives.gov/), at Archives regional centers, and at select Federal depository libraries throughout the United States. In addition, these records are available at various other libraries and research facilities throughout the United States.

You can also check with the reference librarian at your local library and see if they’re set up to borrow microfilm through the National Archives’ census microfilm rental program. There’s something else you’re really going to like … immigration records are also on microfilm at the National Archives. These records have been collected for all major U.S. ports since 1820. They include Boston, New York, Philadelphia, Baltimore and New Orleans. The western ports of San Franciso and Seattle are also archived, though those records weren’t started until late in the 19th Century.

Here’s what these immigration records include: the full name, age, sex, place of origin, and destination for every passenger on the ship. The records even include those who were born or died during the voyage.

And there’s more. You can also track down some naturalization records through the U.S. National Archives and Records Administration. Naturalization is the process by which a a person becomes an American citizen. By law, a person can be naturalized in any “regular” court. The Immigration and Naturalization Service has records for the entire country beginning in 1906, but before this time, the procedure will only be located in the records of the court where it took place. These records often provide a person’s birth date and location, occupation, immigration year, marital status and spouse information, witnesses’ names and addresses, and more.

For Pre-1906 Naturalizations: Contact the State Archives for the state where the naturalization occurred to request a search of state, county, and local courts records. Contact the NARA regional facility that serves the state where naturalization occurred to request a search of Federal court recordsFor Naturalizations After 1906: After 1906, the courts forwarded copies of naturalizations to the Immigration and Naturalization Service (INS). Naturalizations from Federal Courts are held in the NARA’s regional facilities for the Federal courts for their area.

Learn more: http://www.archives.gov/genealogy/naturalization/

Here are some additional resources that you might find helpful for learning learn more about the Census and how to access all the incredible information available to genealogy researchers:

USGenWeb Census Project http://www.rootsweb.com/~usgenweb/census/

Censuslinks.com http://www.censuslinks.com/

U.S. Census Bureau’s Genealogy Page http://www.census.gov/genealogy/www/

Census Finder http://www.censusfinder.com/

There’s nothing quite as exhilarating as uncovering new information about your ancestors. If you’ve reached a point where you aren’t quite sure what to try next in your genealogy research, The Census might just be your best bet. Even if you aren’t at that point, it’s a resource that you should familiarize yourself with. Sooner or laterArticle Submission, it’s likely that’s where your research is going to led you.

Mexican family genealogy research: Get the correct state

Thursday, November 20th, 2008

Let me address some common misunderstandings about the names of Mexican states. Mexico is the name of the country. I may hear a “duh” but stay with me for a moment. One of the thirty-one states is also named Mexico. So how can you know the difference?

Most Mexican documents and addresses will use the form Edo. de Mexico meaning State of Mexico when referring to the state itself. You may also find the official name, Estado de Mexico, and the lesser used state abbreviation, Edomex. If you were trying to find someone living in the city of Acambay in the State of Mexico, the proper form could be any of the following: Acambay, Estado de Mexico, Acambay, Edo. de Mexico or Acambay, Edomex.

I wish I could tell you this is the final word about Mexico and the State of Mexico, but it’s not. A few prominent Mexican publications such as Guia Roji’s Mexican atlas and the national Mexico telephone books refer to Edo. de Mexico as simply Mexico. I recently had two situations that truly reflect the confusion that exists with the names of cities and states.

The first was an inquiry from a young girl. She wrote that she was starting her Mexican family genealogy and trying to locate a relative in Jilote, Veracruz. I explained there is no such city. There is a city named Jilotepec in Veracruz and recommended she check with the person who told her the city name was Jilote. The girl wrote back she was aware Jilote is a slang term for Jilotepec.

This exchange shows how one small item can stop you from moving your family genealogy research forward and finding the person you are looking for. It’s always best to use the proper city name if you’re searching online or asking for help from family genealogy research web sites.

Be aware that there can be cities or towns in the same state with only one or two letters difference between the two names. I sometimes do a double take because I’ll see two names that look exactly alike at first glance.

Another event occurred while watching the program, 48 Hours Mystery. The show opened with a scene from a city in Mexico. The caption read, “Ajijic, Mexico.” I just happened to be watching the show with a friend from Guadalajara who immediately said, “Hey, that’s in Jalisco! There’s no Ajijic, Mexico!” Guadalajara is in the state of Jalisco, and my friend knows the town, Ajijic. The proper form for the city is Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico.

Would any of us feel saying or writing Los Angeles, USA seemed appropriate or correct? To someone unfamiliar with the U.S. states, they may have no idea where Los Angeles is. Worse, who can say if the post office would deliver a letter if it was addressed to just Los Angeles, USA. So, when we talk about Mexican small towns, precision with the name and spelling is critical to your search and for anyone you have assisting you with the research.

If you are, or have had, problems because of the name of a Mexican city or state, take heart. Not even CBS and 48 Hours seem to know how to properly list an address. They may claim creative license, but when you are doing your family genealogy research and trying to locate someone in Mexico, that creativity can slow you down or stop your search altogether. Now you know what to look for.

This is a main reason why locating someone living in Mexico or doing your Mexican family genealogy may require the services of experts who know the ins and outs of Mexican citiesHealth Fitness Articles, states and much more. It is virtually impossible to locate a person if you do not have the correct city and the state where they are living.

Doing genealogical research? What you should know about birth certificates

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

If you can obtain a birth certificate, then you are well on your way to finding accurate ancestral information. A birth certificate is the first vital document of a person’s life. It is also a very key piece in the research process. The information found on Birth certificates varies by state or region and include such things as: the name of the child, the date and place of birth, the full names of the father and mother. Some localities also include information regarding the father’s occupation, the mother’s maiden name, the birth dates and places of the parents, other children had by the parents, etc.
Due to a law passed around 1910, all vital records, including birth certificates, were required to be kept. Starting February 1, 1914, the Division of Vital Records collected and maintained all birth certificates. There are several records that are available for people born prior to 1914, but these may be harder to come by. Also, it should be noted that birth certificates do not become available to the public until they are at least 100 years old. This may make it even more difficult to obtain a birth certificate for your ancestors. If you do wish to obtain a birth certificate for someone who was born less than 100 years ago you will need to provide the following information:

  • The full name of the person on the birth certificate
  • The date of birth
  • The city or town and county of birth
  • The father’s full name
  • The mother’s full name, to include her maiden name
  • The requester’s relationship to the person named on the certificate
  • The requester’s reason for requesting the certificate

You will also have to pay for the birth certificate. Prices to obtain a birth record are anywhere from $10 to $30. However, most state and local governments charge around $15.
Keep in mind that you may not actually need to obtain an official birth certificate to verify your genealogical research. Birth records are maintained by the board of heath, the bureau of vital statistics, or the county clerk’s office. All birth records are required to be kept whether or not the infant lives. This means that you should be able to at least verify any ancestors in which some record was kept. Even if you cannot obtain an official birth certificate, you may be able to get a copy of the birth certificate or a copy of the register or log book where the information regarding birth was kept.
As you can see, birth certificates can provide you with a substantial amount of concrete information about your ancestors. While all vital records, including birth were not required to be kept before 1910 there are many that are available. If you need more information about obtaining a birth certificate, a copy of a birth certificate or just need to verify that the information you have regarding an ancestor is accurate, contact the local board of health, bureau of vital statistics, of the county clerk’s office of the person you are researching to find out more. Good luck to you in your ancestral research and most importantlyArticle Submission, have fun with it!

Tracing Family History – A primer on research methods, problems and solutions

Monday, September 29th, 2008

People who decide to trace their family histories seem to fall into of two groups: A) they know next to nothing about their family, and need to begin researching from scratch, or B) they already have a good knowledge about their family, but need to document it properly and fill in some blanks. In both instances, the records review will be about the same, albeit it more intense for people in situation A.

Researchers rely on numerous public and private resources and records to confirm family connections. I fit these into a couple of categories as well: Primary and Secondary, or Supplementary resources. Both categories of resources are important and fulfill their own purposes in developing the family history. In fact, they share a mutually complimentary effect with one another that should not be overlooked by the diligent researcher, and will be explained hereafter.

Primary sources are the biggies, such as civil and church records describing births, baptisms, confirmations, marriage, and deaths, census data, naturalization records, newspaper articles, family bibles, and grave markers. All of these records contain hard facts, with names, dates and family relationship landmarks, and serve as the foundation and structure for the family members you are researching.

The Secondary or Supplementary resources provide filler information. You may think of these resources as the ones that add details to bind and hold the structure and foundation together. In other words, they round out the histories of the family members you are discovering. These resources include city directories, tax rolls, voter registrations, property indentures, letters, local history books, photographs, and oral history. Don’t discount these resources! They provide excellent details and can be crucial as you progress through your research work.

If you are starting your research from scratch, many people find that the best way to begin the tracing process is to start with yourself and work your way backward. You should consider the important facts, events and dates related to your own life, and what you know about any siblings, and your parents. It’s best to keep a notebook handy to jot things down as you begin your investigation. I also recommend using a reputable genealogy software program to input your research data and notes. After recording details about yourself, your siblings and parents, move back to your grandparents, being careful to document your reference sources as you regress. This lays out the basic foundation for your family tree. Continue your research in this methodical manner.

I liken the research process to that of an ebb tide. It is a back and forth flow of information, with highs and lows related to the amount of information available during particular periods in our history. You may actually find it harder to research family history in the 20th century than it is in the 19th century. Why? Well, one reason is the federal census, or lack thereof. Census information can only be released to the public after 72 years. The 1930 Federal census, released in 2002, is the most recent federal census available. Access to other recent public records, such as birth certificates, can also be much more difficult to come by. I have found that records from the mid-to-late 1800’s through the early 1900’s seem to be most plentiful. As one regresses in time prior to the mid-1800’s, public records become increasingly more difficult to find.

Consequently, one of the major problems with regressive research is that it becomes increasingly difficult to verify family ties. Older records may be missing first names, surnames, list only initials, or be so poorly written that they lack sufficient or specific details to bind a connection (such as linking a child to parents in a birth record, or linking a woman to her parents in a marriage record). Another ‘show stopper’ problem is that, eventually, the researcher will ‘hit the wall’ with the regressive research, and reach a point where there simply aren’t any written records left to review. Generally, as one regresses further and further in time, the more difficult it becomes to verify family relations.

These problems are more often the rule, rather than the exception, for ‘common folk’. Researching families of stature or royalty is often less onerous (up to a point), because these people have well documented historical references. With an abundance of additional documentation and history to rely on, royals and families of status can be traced back, in some cases, hundreds of years further than common stock families. Rest assured, however, that one will eventually hit the wall no matter who is being researched. For common people, the wall is usually reached sooner, which translates into the verified lineage with a smaller number of generations than that of royalty.

However, all is not lost if royal blood does not course through your veins and leaves of stature do not fill the branches of your family tree. It may be possible to extend your reach, and bridge ‘the wall’ for a period of time. For starters, your research must be exceedingly thorough and balanced in approach. If it is, and the conditions are right, you may be able to use a deductive reasoning technique in your research processes to bridge the wall.

What do I mean by this? First let me tell you what deductive reason is not. It is no guessing game, a stab in the dark, or a linkage of names simply because you have found someone else with a family tree with the same surnames as yours.

Deductive reasoning involves using a foundation of known information, and analyzing it in such a way as to make valid, objective, educated arguments for a family ancestral connection. Making such a case requires multiple pieces of information, oftentimes with supplementary resources, that logically tie personal circumstances together, consider facts that would otherwise exclude or negate the relationships in question from being established (in other words, it would take into account known details that would clearly contradict the relationship that the researcher merely ‘wants’ to make), and at the same time, having met those prior conditions, methodically and logically seems to ‘fit’ in with the known family history. The more pieces of complimentary facts and information that can be considered, obviously, the stronger the case becomes. Depending upon the particulars, there may not be enough additional supplementary resources to make a deductive reasoning insofar as establishing an additional family tie.

In my own case, I was able to apply the deductive reasoning approach with great success. My family lineage stopped six generations back. However, I had strong suspicions of linkage between my 6th generation ancestor and those who I believed were his 7th generation parents. No single piece of information explicitly showed this relationship. Partial names on birth certificates, marriage records, etc., prevented a definitive family tie from being established. However, additional details, like birth dates, Godparents names on baptismal records, names of marriage witnesses, references to known siblings, and other supplementary details were enough to bridge this wall, and conclude that a direct family tie existed between the 6th generation male and the 7th generation parents.

Once I made this connection, I was able to follow the 7th generation father back another two generations. So, it was the deductive reasoning technique that bridged the research wall, and gave me three full generations of lineage to claim as my own. I hit the next wall when I determined the 9th generation father. This wall was reached when my research records ran out. This time frame was about the 1600’s, when the first written church records began in the Rhine area where my ancestors once lived. With no earlier records to review, I do not have enough secondary resources to deduce further ties earlier than the 9th generation family. However, I continue to research, and if I come across additional resources, I may, yet again, be able to bridge the genealogy wall.

Reviewing my case, I was reasonably sure that the family tie I deduced, based upon all of the evidence I had collected, validated and objectively compared, and not being contradictory to anything already relevant to my known ancestors, was enough to confirm this 6th-7th generation relationship.

As it so happens, about a year after I had used my deductive reasoning technique to determine this linkage, a friend from Germany sent me some very old records he had obtained. Included therein was proof positive that the father-son link I had deduced was, in fact, correct. Obviously this proof pleased me, but it went further, confirming my own objective, meticulous genealogical research processes. That confirmation was quite satisfying.

Deductive reasoning is not a technique that can be applied by everyone, but it is a possible solution to consider when you’ve hit the genealogy wallScience Articles, and are looking for a way to break through it.

Best of luck as you trace your history!

What’s #1 Mexico Family Genealogy Research Challenge? Frustration

Sunday, August 24th, 2008

What are the top five challenges that keep people from finding someone in Mexico or starting their Mexican family genealogy research? One of the most interesting challenges that I have come across in my research is frustration. People may feel as though there may be no hope in finding the person they are looking for.

Maybe they are frustrated because they don’t know or speak the Spanish language. This can be especially upsetting for people who are doing their Mexican family genealogy and researching to find a mother or father living in Mexico.

Some clients have told us that their biggest challenge is they do not speak Spanish, have never visited Mexico, don’t know much about the country and have no idea where to start. Some tell us they have names and some information, but have not had any luck at all finding anybody. They feel lost and have given up on their Mexico family genealogy research. They are possibly frustrated because they may have spent hours on the Internet and have come up with nothing.

Let’s talk about that for a minute. There’s a good reason why a person doing family genealogy research for someone in Mexico has not found any information. Let’s start with the Internet. For most people, the Internet is an easy way to find people. Let’s face it, if you are trying to find someone in the United States, all you need to do is put in their name, city, state, and maybe their zip code.

There are many online search engines such as Google, Yahoo, or the Internet White Pages. If someone has any kind of web presence such as: owning a web site; have published articles; been in a newspaper; or even just have a residential listing that is online, they can easily be found through an online search just by plugging their information into a search engine. There is a lot of information on people who are living in the United States and there are many ways to look for them and it is very easy to find them–if they are living in the United States.

So naturally, when most people think about finding someone in Mexico, whether or not they are doing family genealogy research, they turn to the Internet. However, the problem with trying to find someone in Mexico by using the Internet is that very little of the information on individuals who are living in Mexico is digitized. Herein lays the problem. The information is not on the Internet including free family genealogy web sites. If you did an Internet search for Mexico, you would receive a lot of results, but a closer look at the results reveals that most of them have to do with New Mexico or Mexico, Missouri. The search results are not focused on the Country of Mexico but more on searching for people that live in the United States.

Marie Daly, director of the Research Library at the New England Historic Genealogical Society gave this comment about family genealogy research on the Internet, “I’d say perhaps only 10 percent of the genealogical information out there is on the Web. But when people do genealogy research, they think that’s 100 percent, and they make a big error that way. Not everything is on the Web. And some of the things that are on the Web are erroneous.” – How to be a Self-Sufficient Researcher by Margaret Moen

Even though you may spend a lot of time looking for this information and have visited some of the family genealogy research web sites, it may be in the wrong direction. If you have spent over an hour searching the Internet, stop. Why would I say this? Because most people have used up their own ideas of where and how to search online after an hour. There is a science to searching online. After an hour most people have used up all of their resources and ideas of how to look for information. After that a lot of people are just spending time surfing the net, bouncing from site to site, looking and hoping for some new information.

People may feel that if they keep searching, they will find that one family genealogy research web site that has the information they are looking for. There is no one magic web site that will give you a simple answer to locate someone living in Mexico. It is just not out there and this includes free family genealogy sites.

If you are frustrated because you have spent a lot of time looking for someone, have tried free family genealogy web sites and nothing you have done has worked, you are finally in the right place. In the next few articlesComputer Technology Articles, I am going to share with you information on what to do and how to do it. So don’t give up.

Research Your Daycare

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

Daycare is where you drop your child off with a provider. Daycare is a great way for your child to acquire some social skills if you’re in a situation where there aren’t other kids around. Check your state and local regulations before enrolling your child in a center or home daycare. Diversity in type of daycare providers and geographic limitations make daycare a fragmented industry. This will lead parents to be frustrated who are looking for quality child daycare, with 87% of them describing the traditional search for child daycare as “difficult and frustrating”. In some cases, good daycare can provide different experiences than parental care does, especially when children reach two and are ready to interact with other children. There are often local industry associations that lobby governments on childcare policy, promote the industry to the public or help parents choose the right daycare provider. As a matter of social policy, consistent, good daycare, may ensure adequate early childhood education for children of less skilled parents.

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The vast majority of childcare is still performed by the parents, in house nanny or through informal arrangements with relatives, neighbors or friends. For example, in Canada, among two parent families with at least one working parent, 62% of parents handle the childcare themselves, 32% have other in-home care (nannies, relatives, neighbors or friends) and only 6.5% use a formal daycare center. Some home day cares operate illegally with respect to tax legislation where the care provider does not report fees as income and the parent does not receive a receipt to qualify for childcare tax deductions. Under the current law, educators and childcare workers at daycare centers, schools, and other organizations need to have their backgrounds checked. According to provinces and cities some shortages of subsidized openings can lengthen the time needed to find a suitable childcare provider. Almost all areas of the country reported a rise in the costs parents have to pay for all forms of childcare, when they can find it. Continuing high costs of childcare highlight the need to subsidize services more effectively. The government needs to support affordable quality childcare which is provided locally through the voluntary, public and independent sectors, and meets the requirements of parents.

Business

Don’t be mislead in thinking that operating a day care business means working 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Your best option is to run a daycare business from your home and avoid paying large fees to rent an outside space. If you’re tired of leaving your little one in the care of someone else, but need the money to help meet your financial obligations, running a home daycare business is the solution you’ve been waiting for. A home daycare is one of the easiest, cheapest and fastest home businesses to start. Many experts do expect the demand of daycare services to increase through the next decade, and the popularity of this type of business to continue to grow from there. Be sure to know the regulations in your area, and then design your business plan to meet these regulations.

There are various software packages that will help you to run a smooth day care operation. Whether you run a home daycare or a daycare center, a good daycare software will: Organize your child care business making it run more smoothly and trouble-free, save you time by automating time-consuming administrative tasks such as attendance tracking and billing, save you money by reducing administrative costs, reduce stress with automatically generated schedules, and event reminders make you money by allowing you to focus on growing your business while helping you avoid legal and tax problems. Finally, if you have employeesFree Web Content, the software with automatically keep track of their hours and pay.

Placing your child in a daycare can be a stressful decision for any parent as in most cases they’re literally giving all their trust to a stranger to look after their child. Verify with local governments to make sure the day care facility has a good standing track record with few documented complaints. The day care industry is spread vast and may be profitable if you decide to operate the business from home.

New Research on Teenage Angst

Sunday, May 25th, 2008

Having a hard time recognizing your teenager? Wondering where that sweet child has gone?

The passage into adolescence can be just as difficult on parents as it is for their children. Teens can be moody, self-absorbed and downright testy. Itโ€™s difficult for parents not to feel confused and rejected being on the receiving end of these new personalities.

Thankfully, the science of neuropsychiatry is shedding new light on the machinations of the adolescent mind. In tracking brain activity, they found that adolescent neurotransmitter activity measures twice that of adults. While accelerating their learning capacity, this creative surge is accompanied by a sharp rise in emotional reactivity and perceptual acuity. Teens watch you like a hawk, picking up on your every word and gesture. They cringe, accusing you of being insensitive and clueless. Add to the mix the dramatic change in hormonal levels and โ€œbamโ€! โ€œ What happened to my loving, cooperative little boy/girl?โ€

Other research pinpoints increased activity in the area of the brain responsible for evaluating experience and perception of others. Paradoxically, scientists noted a drop in puberty-aged kidsโ€™ ability to read the emotions of others. As a result, they display a lessened capacity for empathy. This is not news to a lot of parents who watch their teens becoming more and more self-absorbed and self-centered.

Parents of the children Iโ€™ve worked with are often desperate for guidance in handling their depressed or acting-out children. They feel hurt and helpless. Having access to these new insights into adolescent behavior and thought patterns can be profoundly helpful and reassuring to parents and their teenagers. Achieving a new perspective about their children is critical for parents to set appropriate limits and to allow for calm, open communication. With the help of a professional therapist, parents learn to change the way they experience and understand their childโ€™s behavior. In an environment of trust and acceptance, a more healthful separation-individuation process can take place. With that support and guidance, the adolescent is relieved of the burden of the parentsโ€™ upset and anxiety so that she/he may get on with the tasks at hand: Who am I? What do I want ? What are my talents and my potential?

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Research Shows Need Exists for After-school Program

Sunday, May 25th, 2008

In fact, a recently released survey supports the need for quality after-school programs that offer students homework assistance and academic goal-setting to help deter kids from crime and substance abuse.

Television is the No. 1 homework distraction, according to the Boys & Girls Clubs of America/JCPenney Afterschool Fund Survey, which questioned students about homework and on graduating from high school. Sixty-seven percent of students said teachers should assign homework, but 54 percent claim there is too much of it.

Also, most of the students surveyed said graduating high school was very important to them, with 61 percent saying going to college was their primary ambition after high school. The negative influence of peers was cited as the greatest challenge to finishing high school.

To address these statistics, Boys & Girls Clubs of America and the JCPenney Afterschool Fund have partnered to create after-school programs that, according to Julie Berkhouse, after-school specialist for the JCPenney Afterschool Fund, emphasize the importance of doing well in school and planning for the future.

“Numerous studies have shown that children involved in quality after-school programs, including those that offer homework assistance, have better grades, higher school attendance, better attitudes toward school, higher educational aspirations and less need for disciplinary action,” said Berkhouse.

One such program is Power Hour. This interactive homework assistance program helps young people view homework as an opportunity to learn how to work independently, successfully complete a project on time and feel good about their accomplishments.

Additionally, Goals for Graduation is a program for youth ages 6 to 15 that provides one-on-one activities to support academic goal-setting, learning and success in school. Through an incremental approach, students create an action plan with daily and weekly goals – leading to both short- and long-term gains.

“Research shows that without significant educational support, many young people are likely to accept low standards of academic achievement, leading to unrealized potential and locking them into limited opportunities for employment and life,” said Carrie Prudente, director of education programs for Boys & Girls Clubs of America.