Posts Tagged ‘mood’

How to Manage Your Mood with Food

Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

Here’s a meal-by-meal guide to eating for energy and
managing your mood with food.

Breakfast

Eating a good breakfast boosts your concentration and revs
your energy, particularly in the morning when you may need it
most. Without breakfast, you’re more likely to make that second
pot of coffee by mid-morning.

Instead, keep your blood sugar on an even keel with
complex carbohydrates. Avoid refined carbohydrates, such as white
bread and white sugar. These have a high glycemic index, which
can cause spikes and dips in your blood sugar levels.

The right complex carbohydrates provide your brain and muscles
with the steady flow of the energy they need. Grains are great
sources of B vitamins, which aid in the metabolic production of
energy. The best carb choices for breakfast are natural
whole-grain breads and cereals.

For the best breakfast, add a low-fat protein, such as yogurt,
cottage cheese, or skim milk, and watch your fat intake as well
as your meat consumption (meat takes more energy to digest).

Mid-morning snack

Turns out, snacking may not be such a bad idea. Eating every few
hours helps your body use nutrients more efficiently. It
stimulates your metabolism, keeps your blood sugar levels
steady, reduces stress on your digestive system, and decreases
hunger, which means you’ll be less likely to overeat when
mealtime finally rolls around.

If you’re craving carbs, which many of us do at this time of day,
choose whole-grain bread, cereal, or fruit.

Fruits and vegetables deliver a low-fat, high-fiber
alternative to the vending machine choices. Raw carrots
and sugar snap peas, for example, provide a crisp,
satisfying crunch and won’t zap your energy.
Challenge yourself to eat at least five servings
of fruits and vegetables each day.

For maximum energy throughout the day, avoid foods that
are laden with simple sugars, such as cookies, pastries,
candy bars, and sodas, which can bring on erratic blood
sugar levels.

Instead, try some lean protein (low-fat yogurt, cottage cheese or
lean meat) to help tide you over until lunch.

Lunch

At midday, go light. Because a hefty helping of carbohydrates
can increase the amount of seratonin in the brain and cause
that sleepy feeling, focus on low-fat protein.

Protein can actually raise energy levels by increasing
brain chemicals called catecholamines. Eat a lunch of low-fat
cheese, fish, lean meat, poultry, or tofu.

Mid-afternoon snack

Choose something that will keep you satisfied until dinner.
A little bit of fat is fine. It gives those carbohydrates and
proteins some staying power. My favorite? All-natural peanut
butter and a few crackers.

Before your work-out

Carbohydrates are fastest to digest and pack quick energy.
Add protein for staying power, but stay away from fats.
They can make you cramp.

Dinner

The agenda for the evening can dictate what you’ll eat
for dinner. Need to stay on overdrive for back-to-school
night? Choose low-fat proteins. If you’re in relax
mode, indulge a little.

Whatever’s on the menu, remember the Pie Test. Envision
your plate as a pie. Seventy-five percent of the pie
should be filled with fruits, vegetables, and grains
and 25 percent with other foods, such as diary
products and meat.

Before bed

Before turning in, a carbohydrate-rich snack can supply seratonin
to help you fall asleep. But go easy. Too much food can reduce
the quality of your sleep.

Eating for energy is one of the most effective, powerfulFeature Articles, and
fast-acting mood-boosters. Try it today and see!

Set The Holiday Season Mood With A Christmas Movie

Thursday, October 16th, 2008

Apart of Christmas tree, decorations, parties and gifts, there is something that adds a special atmosphere to the holiday season: Christmas movies.Almost all adults have sweet memories related to a Christmas movie; a movie that remains favorite and have – sometimes just for a second – a special flavour: the taste of childhood.We are now adults and know that movies related to Christmas create a fun atmosphere and also teach moral lessons to our children.When I was a child, the most watched Christmas movies in Belgium were 1950’s American movies (Hollywood style obviously) or French films.For twenty-five years, our society evolved and the quality of Christmas TV broadcasts in French-speaking Europe has decreased. Movies of Christmas Eve have generally been replaced by musical broadcasts whose quality was not the best. Lots of TV companies also tend to offer hundred times viewed movies: for instance, TVI will display Harry Potter 1 and 2 on December 24th while we were expecting watching Harry Potter 3 or 4…However, thanks to the Internet and DVD stores, I have the opportunity to watch the movies I love instead of those proposed by TV companies.Here are some examples of beautiful and/or humorous Christmas movies I love:”Bishop’s Wife”A nice movie in the Hollywood tradition!While working on plans to build a cathedral financed by a rich widow, Henry Broghaman, an Episcopal bishop neglects his family and prays for divine guidance.His prayers are heard and Dudley, an angel, is sent to help him. The mission of the angel is not to assist with the building, but in his relations with his family that he is neglecting.But Dudley falls in love with the bishop’s wife and Broghaman is jealous…French title of this movie is “Honi soit qui mal y pense” (Old English: shame upon him who thinks evil of it).”The sound of music”This movie tells the story of Maria, a young Austrian who was studying to become a nun. She was hired by Captain Von Trapp, a widower to be the governess to his seven children.The children were initially hostile to her but finally became her friends when she thaught them the joy of singing.Captain Von Trapp and Maria fell in love and get married. When the Nazis took power in Austria, Captain Von Trapp and his whole family fled the country and found refuge in Switzerland.This romantic musical comedy is one of French-speaking European favorite movies.”3615 Code Pere Noel”Thomas is a child who has everything: a mother who loves him, a cheeky grandfather, thousands of different and expensive toys.Thomas is a clever child and on Christmas Eve, while planning of catching, he communicates with him through the Minitel (the French ancestor of the instant messenger).Unfortunately, the alleged Santa Claus is a psychopath employee that his mother just laid off. A few hours later, the false Santa penetrates Thomas castle and the nightmare begins.The English title of this thriller is “Dial Code Santa Claus”"Le Pere Noel est une Ordure” (Santa Claus is a junk)”SOS Distress and Friendship” is a charity association run by Mrs Musquin. While she decided to celebrate Christmas Eve with her family, Pierre and Therese, will spend their evening the phone and try to give some hope to desperate people.They do not know that this Christmas Eve will get them into silly accidents as well as unannounced visits of desperate, and sometimes, dangerous people. The evening will turn into a humorous nightmare.The American remake of this movie is “Mixed Nuts”.”Scrooged”This is a modern adaptation of the Dickens tale. Francis Cross, who is the program director of a TV station, is a disagreeable person.During the Christmas Eve, three ghosts will take care of them and teach him how to become a pleasant person by showing him the good side of life.This movie is also a nice message that teaches to the world the real meaning of Christmas.”National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation”The return of Griswold Family!25000 bulbs on the front of the house blinding the neighbors, unbearable related family, a burning Christmas tree, a charred Christmas turkey, hostile neighbors, a removed Christmas bonus and a lot of unexpected accidents, this is the Christmas of the Griswold family.I watched this movie for the first time in the late 80’s and never have enough of it!I even bought the DVD in order to have the opportunity to create a hysteric Christmas atmosphere any other day of the year!”Surviving Christmas”Tired of the customs associated with Christmas and New Year? What about being paid $250Health Fitness Articles,000 to to celebrate a traditional Christmas Eve with an unknown person?Enjoy watching these movies and have a very Merry Christmas!

Sex and the New Mom: How to Get in the Mood When You’re Not

Thursday, September 18th, 2008

You have been awake since 5 am. Feedings, diapers, laundry, meals, emails, feedings and more feedings. You plop into bed exhausted at 11 pm, praying your baby will sleep for five hours in a row. You glance over at your husband who has that little gleam in his eye. “Sex now? No way! Roll over and go to sleep dear!”

It’s a familiar scene for families with young children. As a mom, you are too tired for any kind of sex, let alone great sex. But you know a physical relationship with your husband is part of a healthy marriage. You feel badly for not desiring sex, but you’re too tired to do anything about it. So how can you rekindle your desire for intimacy, even with a new baby?

1. Put it on the backburner, but don’t forget about it. Having a baby does take a great amount of time, work and energy. Sex may have to go on the backburner when your baby has a need. But just like you wouldn’t leave food sitting on the backburner for weeks, don’t forget about sex completely. When the time isn’t right for you, tell your spouse you’d really like to make love another time, how about on the weekend? Set a real time and keep your commitment. Food left on the backburner will eventually go bad and the same is true about closeness in marriage if you neglect lovemaking too long.

2. Put your mind to it. Your brain weighs just over three pounds, but it has 12 billion cells with thousands of thoughts blazing through it each day. These thoughts determine what you think of yourself and what your actions will be. If you keep telling yourself, “I’m too tired to have sex” or “I don’t want my husband to see me naked,” guess what? You’ll act on these thoughts and avoid sex indefinitely. Why not think of yourself as a lover? Re-train your mind and paint a different picture of yourself as the woman your husband is dreaming about. Make a point of thinking each day, “I am a sexy woman, desired by my husband. I am looking forward to being intimate with my spouse.”

3. Put it on the calendar. When your baby has an appointment at the doctor’s office, do you go? Of course you do. Events written in the calendar with a specific time and place get done. The same applies to lovemaking. Start with putting one special time for romance with your husband in your schedule. Anticipate a great time together. You’ll be so energized and feel so close to your husband that you’ll be scheduling your next love appointment right away.

Having a new baby means making adjustments in your marriage. As you make time for sex, you’ll see your husband become more responsive to your needs. He’ll be doing more diapers and helping out with baby so you can get ready for your date nights at home. Now that’s something to get you in the mood!

Today’s Action Step: Talk to your husband about this article, “Sex and the New Mom.” Schedule a time in the next two weeks for lovemaking.

Breaking the Myths of Motherhood: One Step Toward Alleviating Postpartum Mood Disorders

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Many first-time mothers are baffled when they find their new life with baby doesnโ€™t match up to the myths of motherhood. We are led to believe that having a baby should be a glorious, magical time. We are taught not only that we will but that we must bond immediately with our babies. We believe in the images of mother and father standing over their babyโ€™s crib holding each other close and smiling with glee, and we assume we will have the same experience.

But the reality is often a bit more raw. Reality may include fear, exhaustion, confusion and self-doubt. It may involve a high-needsโ€™ baby, breast-feeding challenges, marital adjustments, isolation, or other life stressors.

When a woman has a family or personal history of depression or anxiety in addition to hormonal shifts, sleep deprivation, and a less than perfect experience as a new mother, she may be thrown into an unexpected state of irritation, depression, anxiety or obsessive/compulsive behavior. It can be a time of confusion and increased self-doubt, leaving her wondering, โ€œWhat is wrong with me?โ€

10-20% of pregnant women will experience postpartum depression or anxiety. The good news is that it is incredibly treatable. For mild depression or anxiety, support, exercise, healthy eating, and a moderate amount of sleep may be all it takes for a mother to feel like herself again. For moderate to severe depression or anxiety, an individualized combination of self-care, therapy and medication has proven to resolve even the most challenging postpartum adjustment issues.

During pregnancy, if a woman knows she has a family or personal history of depression or anxiety, if there are actual or anticipated life stressors during pregnancy or the first year postpartum, or if she has minimal amount of support in her life, she can shore up resources and support during pregnancy to minimize the possibility of postpartum depression.The greatest gift a mother can give to her baby is to feel good about being a mom. The greatest gift she can give to herself is the support and self-care she needs to make that her reality.

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Pregnant? Mood Swings? to Cry or not to Cry – Thatโ€™s the Question

Sunday, July 13th, 2008

Mood swings are a part and parcel of pregnancy. You keep thinking- โ€œOh God, Why am I feeling like a yo-yo between my emotions?โ€ Relax; these conflicting feelings belong to the category of early pregnancy symptoms. They will definitely pass, they always do.

Why Do These Pregnancy Mood Swings Occur?

Remember the days just before your period? Consider these mood swings as an extension of PMS. The culprits are the hormones present in the body- they are playing havoc with your emotional stability making you either weepy or euphoric. And since you canโ€™t beat โ€™em, join โ€™em.

Ta Daโ€ฆFew Tips To Beat These Bad Pregnancy Symptoms:-

  • Keep in mind that these are just early pregnancy symptoms. You will definitely feel better after a couple of months. Joy and sorrow go hand in hand. So keep that chin up.
  • You must read up; get some good books and ask your family and partner to do the same. That way, they tend to understand and cope with your mood swings better.
  • Ask your doctor to explain it to you in layman terms. Too much medical jargon regarding pregnancy symptoms is a no-no.
  • Occupy your time sensibly. Go for walks, talk with friends, exercise (with the obstetricianโ€™s say-so), rest, read, etc. so that you dwell less on your temper and enjoy this pregnancy period more.
  • Talk about your pregnancy symptoms with women who have gone through the same time. Their experiences will help you understand your own behaviour and you can share views and opinions with them.
  • It is okay to weep- get those tears out. A good crying session definitely makes one feel better. After all, you are pregnant women and under great tension at times. Crying is a good way to release that pent-up stress.

    One more thing, do keep your partner updated with your attitude. Since he is not going through the actual pregnancy, at times he might feel excluded from the whole process. Use this time to bond with him. Talk to him so that he can share your happiness or worries. With him shouldering some of your tension, you will feel closer and this will strengthen your relationship.

    If these still persist, then you must check with your doctor. Sometimes, a condition called bi-polar disorder affect people and that can cause bouts of depression and mania. So seek professional help. You must keep a strict eye on increasing or more intense mood swings so that any problem can be dealt effectively with.

  • Sex and the New Mom: How to Get in the Mood When Youโ€™re not

    Saturday, June 28th, 2008

    You have been awake since 5 am. Feedings, diapers, laundry, meals, emails, feedings and more feedings. You plop into bed exhausted at 11 pm, praying your baby will sleep for five hours in a row. You glance over at your husband who has that little gleam in his eye. โ€œSex now? No way! Roll over and go to sleep dear!โ€

    Itโ€™s a familiar scene for families with young children. As a mom, you are too tired for any kind of sex, let alone great sex. But you know a physical relationship with your husband is part of a healthy marriage. You feel badly for not desiring sex, but youโ€™re too tired to do anything about it. So how can you rekindle your desire for intimacy, even with a new baby?

    1. Put it on the backburner, but donโ€™t forget about it. Having a baby does take a great amount of time, work and energy. Sex may have to go on the backburner when your baby has a need. But just like you wouldnโ€™t leave food sitting on the backburner for weeks, donโ€™t forget about sex completely. When the time isnโ€™t right for you, tell your spouse youโ€™d really like to make love another time, how about on the weekend? Set a real time and keep your commitment. Food left on the backburner will eventually go bad and the same is true about closeness in marriage if you neglect lovemaking too long.

    2. Put your mind to it. Your brain weighs just over three pounds, but it has 12 billion cells with thousands of thoughts blazing through it each day. These thoughts determine what you think of yourself and what your actions will be. If you keep telling yourself, โ€œIโ€™m too tired to have sexโ€ or โ€œI donโ€™t want my husband to see me naked,โ€ guess what? Youโ€™ll act on these thoughts and avoid sex indefinitely. Why not think of yourself as a lover? Re-train your mind and paint a different picture of yourself as the woman your husband is dreaming about. Make a point of thinking each day, โ€œI am a sexy woman, desired by my husband. I am looking forward to being intimate with my spouse.โ€

    3. Put it on the calendar. When your baby has an appointment at the doctorโ€™s office, do you go? Of course you do. Events written in the calendar with a specific time and place get done. The same applies to lovemaking. Start with putting one special time for romance with your husband in your schedule. Anticipate a great time together. Youโ€™ll be so energized and feel so close to your husband that youโ€™ll be scheduling your next love appointment right away.

    Having a new baby means making adjustments in your marriage. As you make time for sex, youโ€™ll see your husband become more responsive to your needs. Heโ€™ll be doing more diapers and helping out with baby so you can get ready for your date nights at home. Now thatโ€™s something to get you in the mood!

    Todayโ€™s Action Step: Talk to your husband about this article, โ€œSex and the New Mom.โ€ Schedule a time in the next two weeks for lovemaking.

    Coping With your Teenagerโ€™s Mood Swings

    Friday, June 13th, 2008

    If you are the parent of a teenager, you are familiar with mood swings. One minute, your teen is happy and loving, the next they are sullen or angry. These mood swings can happen fast and can seem to come out of nowhere.

    You may find yourself wondering what you did or said to cause this shift in your teenโ€™s mood. The truth is, you probably didnโ€™t do anything wrong at all. Your teenโ€™s mood swings are normal, and there is not much that can be done to stop it.

    Your teen is slowly becoming an adult and they are developing the skills they need to handle the pressures of the adult world, but this process takes time. They may have a school project due, have chores around the house to complete, and then they get into an argument with their best friend.

    Some of these things may seem silly or trivial, as you have work to do and a lot more housework on top of that. Try to remember that your teenโ€™s brain is still growing and they may simply not have the ability to handle all of those pressures and keep a smile on their face at all times.

    While you may not be able to end your teenโ€™s mood swings all together, you can use these techniques to help both you and your teen learn to cope:

    โ€ข Encourage your teen to talk to you when they feel upset or overwhelmed. Let them know that you are there for them, and that you have experienced those same feelings from time to time.

    โ€ข If your teen doesnโ€™t want to talk, encourage them to express their feelings in a creative way, such as painting, drawing, or writing. Let them know that they can keep this private, that they do not need to show anyone. Once they get their frustrations out, they will feel a lot better and will be able to move on.

    โ€ข Try not to react to your teenโ€™s mood swings. Sometimes, they say things just to get a reaction. If you ignore the bait, they may change their attitude.

    โ€ข If you and your teen do get into an argument, diffuse the situation by getting up and taking a break. When both you and your child are calmed down, you can finish discussing the issue.

    At times, it can seem like your teen is from a foreign country. They have different behavior and customs and sometimes, and sometimes it can seem as though they are speaking a different language.

    Even though there are difficult times, try to enjoy this period of your childโ€™s life as much as possible, because these years will go by very fast.