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Baby Girl Conceive Myths – Debunked!

Sunday, February 7th, 2010

Have you ever been in a situation to ask (yourself,
or someone supposedly knowledgable): ‘How can I tell from early signs
of pregnancy if it’s a girl?’, or anything along the lines of ‘Is it
true that I am having a baby girl if: my belly looks like a giant
watermelon/I’m having terrible acne outbreaks/sooo craving sweets’ etc.

In
that case, you must have noticed that there are a lot of so called old
wives’ tales concerning baby gender, and an equally large body of
rumors floating around – all claiming that can help you find out if
you’re carrying a so much wanted baby girl.

From looking at the
shape of a pregnant woman’s stomach, to swinging a wedding ring above
it to predict if baby is a girl or a boy, all these ‘techniques’ of
guessing your baby’s gender are originating from various historic myths
belonging to various cultures.

Some say it works, some say it
don’t:) I’d say you use it if you have nothing against being surprised
when the child eventually gets born…

But, let’s hear what scientist have to say about do-it-yourself baby gender natural selection techniques.

One
of the most widespread myths is that if you’re carrying a baby ‘low’
means you will have a girl. Scientists say that there are a lot of
factors that determine how you’ll be carrying, most notably the age of
the unborn baby and his position in the uterus; if the mother is
carrying ‘high’ or ‘low’ also depends on her body type: short waisted
woman will look different when pregnant than a long waisted.

According to scientists, whether you’re carrying ‘high’ or ‘low’ got nothing to do with the gender of your unborn baby.

Another
widespread method of guessing your baby sex is… well… looking at
your pee:) If your urine is of a dull color, it’s a girl; if it’s a
bright color, it’s a boy.

Scientists say that color of a pregnant
woman’s urine has to do with only one thing: her water intake. The more
water you drink, the lighter colored your urine will be, and vice versa.

Some
say that if your body hair grows slower since you got pregnant, it’s a
sign that you’re having a baby girl. On the contrary, if you’re
carrying a baby boy, your body hair tends to grow much faster.

The
rationale here being that hormones from baby in your stomach affect the
grow of your body hair – and the scientist denying that logic
entirely…

Is it true that if you’re craving sweet foods during pregnancy, you’re going to have a girl?

Scientist
can’t say what causes pregnant woman to crave one food or another, but
don’t think it has anything to do with the sex of baby they’re
carrying…

Ah, scientists are ruining all the fun;)

They
even suggest that gold ring method needs a reality check… If you
haven’t heard about this method of guessing your baby’s sex, let me
enlighten you;) You suspend a ring from a string over a pregnant
woman’s belly and observe its movements: if it’s moving in circles -
it’s a girl, and if it swings back and forth – it’s a boy.

Scientists will, unimaginativelyFree Articles, simply state that there’s nothing about the gender of a baby that can influence gravity…:)

Baby Girl Crib Bedding Sets

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

Of all the things you’ll decorate over your lifetime, perhaps the most beautiful and perfect of all will be your baby’s nursery.� And when it comes to a baby girl, there’s absolutely no end to the gorgeous baby girl crib bedding sets at your disposal!� From three and four-piece frilled masterpieces to ultimate pillows, ribboned bumpers, and embroidered crib bedding sets, your baby girl can sleep in soft, supreme luxury.� The most chic and stylish girl’s crib bedding isn’t found in your average department store, either – the internet is the best place for such a search.� Great websites such as Discount Home Bedding offer amazing baby boy and girl crib bedding sets with all the frills and extras!

Before choosing the right baby girl crib bedding set you’ll need to have color in mind.� Ideally, your wall color should compliment the crib bedding as much as possible, but not overwhelm the room with all the same hue.� Accent walls of a different color and multi-striped walls are popular these days, as are the colors pink and chocolate.� Baby girl crib bedding sets come in those colors and more – you can even bring a swatch of fabric to the paint store in order to achieve the best match possible.

Another factor to consider when choosing your little princess’s crib bedding are the location of the windows in your baby nursery.� These will need valances, and these beautiful ruffled curtains will need to match the bedding.� Choose from baby girl crib bedding sets that offer matching valance panels, and make sure you size them for the windows.� At times you’ll want to draw your curtains closed so you can rock your child to sleep, so be sure to get valances that don’t interfere with the function of your window curtains or shades.

When selecting the crib bedding itself, choose a style that best suits your tastes.� Your selection of baby girl crib bedding sets is nearly limitless: you can find everything from simple solid-colored bedding to polka dots, stripes, and multi-colored panels.� Bumper cording can be simple or can consist of beautiful frilled ribbon – just make certain you choose one that’s functional and easy to change on and off.� Most crib bedding skirts are ruffled and made from antique linens for a retro, vintage feel.� Check the height of the crib skirt to make sure it just about touches the floor – you’ll be able to use the valuable space underneath your baby girl for storage of everything from diapers to wipes to baby blankets and more!

And speaking of blankets, your baby girl’s bedding should feel ultimately soft to the touch.� Consider baby girl crib bedding sets that offer only the highest quality materials, especially when you consider that these will be touching your little girl’s skin so much of the time.� Ruffles, lace, and frills may look nice in the nursery, but may cause irritation or problems when rubbed up against that soft baby face.� The best rule of thumb is to keep the blanket simple and functional, yet still beautiful and soft.� The same goes for the crib sheet – choose quality baby bedding made with good materials and be sure to examine the label.� Newborns and infants are often allergic, even temporarily, to certain fabrics just as they are to foods.� Hypoallergenic sheeting and blankets could make the difference between getting a rash and not getting one.

Finally, don’t forget to put the cutest and most adorable finishing touches on your little girl’s nursery.� Beautiful hand-painted wall letters can be hung by matching ribbon to spell out your new angel’s name.� These are available at fine baby boutiques like The Frog and the Princess, and come in hundreds of styles, colorsArticle Search, and font types.

How To Conceive A Girl: 3 Essential Tips

Monday, June 29th, 2009

Firstly, anybody who says that can guarantee you 100% that you will
conceive a girl, and the procedure is not medically recognized, is
either lying – or is misguided himself.

The only way to conceive only a baby girl for sure is to ask help from fertility clinics with qualified and experienced medicine professionals.

However, there are ways to sway your odds – somewhat – in favor of conceiving a baby girl, and they’re fairly simple:

1.
Remember the saying “You are what you eat”? Well, it seems what you eat
can also have a determining effect on the gender of your unborn baby.
To
conceive a girl, you should be eating a diet rich in magnesium and low
in sodium. That means giving up on salty foods and introducing lots of
green leafy vegetables in your diet – something that is either way good
for your health!
Oh, and you are officially granted permission to indulge yourself in sweets:)
In a nutshell, that would be baby girl conceiving diet.

2. Timing intercourse to conceive a baby girl method.
Because
of the differences between male and female carrying sperm, you are
advised to do a baby dance about three days prior to your ovulation
date. That would give X sperm a better fighting chance to fertilize egg
when the right time comes.
That would be the short answer to a question: “When to have sex to conceive a baby girl?”.
Remember,
the exact date of ovulation is of critical importance when you’re
trying for a girl, so be sure you know how to determine when you’re
ovulating.

3. What position to have sex in to conceive a girl?
It seems that shallow penetration favors the conception of a daughter.
Make love in missionary position to conceive a baby girl.
Some also recommend position with woman on top.

Have fun trying for a girlFree Web Content, and good luck!

You Can Be the Guy Who Gets the Girl

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

A Little Girl With A Big Question

Saturday, December 6th, 2008

A few nights back, I was enjoying the nightly ritual of combing out my daughter’s long hair after her bath. She always engages me in thought-provoking conversations during this time. It’s become a special bonding session for us each evening, even if it’s just to go over the new experiences she’s had that day.

This time, though, she caught me off guard. My darling daughter, who won’t even be five years old until next week, asked the famous question, “Mom, where do babies come from?”

I immediately started to respond, “Well, honey, when a man and a woman love each other, their love can make a baby….”

At this point, she quickly interrupted me…”No, mom, I mean, how does the baby get inside the mommy’s tummy?”

That was all it took for me. Ten years of reading parenting magazines and advice books continuously, and I had forgotten everything I ever read on the proper response to this line of questioning. My chin dropped to my chest, and my mind was blank.

Luckily, I realized that I had to recover from my momentary brain-freeze, and come up with some sort of answer. My daughter isn’t the type to let something go unanswered. To buy myself some time, I told her it wasn’t easy to explain, and I’d look for a book that we could read together. This seemed to satisfy her for the time being.

Now, with a few days to get back to her, I can help other parents avoid being caught in the same situation. I’m sure I am not the only parent unprepared to have this conversation with a child this young. So what’s the best approach, according to the ‘experts’?

Regarding the best time to start talking about sex with your child, Planned Parenthood says, “It’s best to start as soon as children begin getting sexual messages. And they start getting them as soon as they’re born. But don’t worry if you haven’t started yet. It’s never too late. Just don’t try to “catch up” all at once. The most important thing is to be open and available whenever a child wants to talk. The rest will take care of itself.” (How to Talk With Your Child About Sexuality: A Parent’s Guide)

According to Pandorah Turner of www.RaisingKids.tv, “Your 5-year-old daughter may be happy with the simple answer that babies come from a seed that grows in a special place inside
the mother. Dad helps when his seed combines with mom’s seed, which causes the baby to start to grow” (Article: Talking To Your Daughter About The Birds & The Bees). To me, that seems
like a very comfortable way to answer her question. However, it scares me to think what she might ask next!

Many experts state that you should only offer the information that your young children ask for. If you get too involved beyond their specific questions, most likely they won’t retain
what you tell them. There is nothing wrong with admitting to your child that you don’t know the answer to their question. Instead of possibly providing incorrect information, offer to
look up the answers and get back to them, but make sure that you follow through. Be sure to use correct terminology when answering questions, especially when referring to anatomy. If
the words make you uncomfortable, practice saying them when you are alone, before you try using them in conversations with your child.

When talking with a 2.5 to 5 year old, according to www.siecus.org, “You could say, ‘Babies grow in a special place inside a mommy called a uterus.’ If your child seems interested
and asks more questions, offer more simple answers. The actual information you give your preschooler is less important than showing you’re willing to talk openly about sexuality.”

There are many books available on the subject, also. For example:
“How Babies Are Made” by Andrew C. Andry, Steven Schepp, Blake Hampton (Illustrator)
ASIN/0316042277

“Did the Sun Shine Before You Were Born” by Sola Gordon, Judith Gordon, Vivien Cohen (Illustrator), Sol Gordon
ASIN/087975723X

“How You Were Born” by Joanna Cole, Margaret Miller (Photographer)
ASIN/068812061X

And there are videos for your use, too, like:
“How To Talk With Your Young Children About Sex…And Why It’s Important”
ASIN/096779840X

So, moms and dads, help is out there – make sure you look for it before you get stuck in my shoes! After picking up a few books, I’ll be ready to educate my daughter. I’d rather have
her learn about it here at home, than from the media, or her classmates. We live in a society where sex is everywhere we look. We can’t simply avoid these uncomfortable conversations. Our children will learn about it. The important thing is to make sure they learn correctly. And if we keep them comfortable with asking us now, they will be much more likely to turn to us later in life as the outside world gets more complex.

My daughter reminded me once again that our children will continue to grow up, whether we are ready for them to or not. Sure, she’s only going on five years old now, but I look back
at these last five years, and I wonder how they could have gone by so amazingly fast. The next five years, and ten years, will be gone just as quickly. In today’s whirlwind worldHealth Fitness Articles,
procrastination is not our best option.

The Perfect Birthday Present for that Little Girl (No Batteries Required)

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

The Dilemma
As a mom of a five-year-old girl, I have attended countless birthday parties in the past few years. With each event, comes the inevitable trip to the toy store to find an appropriate gift for the child of honor. I began to dread the gift-buying process. Toys had either too many pieces, were too sophisticated, were too popular and bound to be duplicates, were too expensive, or just not cool enough (according to my resident expert). The toys my daughter received last year were played with once or twice and piled up in the closet along with the rest of the colorful plastic presents of the past.

The Answer: Dress-up Costumes!
With no small piece to be choking hazards, no instructions to read, no set up necessary, no batteries required and plenty of variety from which to choose, I had come up with a unique and perfect Birthday Present.

Every little girl dreams of being a princess and every little girl love to dress up in beautiful silky dresses, wear crowns, wave magic wands and dance around the house. But, dress-up costumes are not limited to princesses alone. With so many costumes to choose from, there is something special and unique for each child.

How To Pick The Right Costume
I have given many costumes as gifts and have found that you can’t go wrong giving a little girl a Barbie costume. However, here are some tips to make the perfect selection:
* Find out what TV shows the child likes to watch. Often, costumes of the main characters are available.
* Does the child have a favorite movie? There are numerous licensed movie costumes available.
* Be sure to buy an ‘Official Licensed Costume’ if available. This will help ensure that the child will be able to recognize the costume, as it will be made according to licensing specifications.
* Check the size and buy the right one. Nothing is more disappointing than receiving a costume and it not fitting. Make sure you buy the right size. If you are not sureComputer Technology Articles, buy the larger size.

Plus Size Prom Dresses For the Curvy Girl

Thursday, August 7th, 2008

Knowing where to shop for that perfect dress is the key to getting a dress that fits well and flatters you so that you can truly feel like a princess on this special night. Several websites and shops offer dresses that will fit up to size 44, so you should have no problem finding something perfect to wear. With 20 percent of teens in plus sizes, you’re in good company as you shop for something perfect to wear.

The first step to getting a flattering look is to consider your figure.� The dress that looks great on a tiny classmate with no curves is going to bunch and look unflattering if you have them.� Shop styles designed with your body in mind, not just sized up from the standard line.� If you know what sort of shape flatters your body, you can get the best dress for your prom.� Apple shapes look good in empire styles.� Hourglasses are flattered by styles with a definite waist, but not by straight sheath shapes.� Pear shapes do well in dresses with full skirts that flare from the hips.� If you’re small busted, consider a dress with decoration at the top to draw attention to your upper half.� If, on the other hand, you’d prefer to minimize your bust, avoid things like bugle- beaded and plunging necklines.

To make your dress look its best, don’t forget what you’re wearing underneath. Ask your salesperson for help with undergarments that won’t bunch or show panty lines, for example. Specialty shops will fit you with a bra that will flatter you in your beautiful new gown, with no lumps or bumps visible. Make sure your gown draws attention to your best features; with the right undergarments, you’ll be set for your big night and will look your best.

Don’t skimp on your makeup and hair.� The right hairstyle can make you glamorous.� The wrong one can add fullness to your face and draw attention just where you don’t want it.� Consult with your stylist about what hairstyle will go best with your dress.� Updos this year are tending towards messy, rather than severe.� Little tendrils trailing out of your style can give it a fun, casual look.� Always pick a style that goes with the mood you want to project, though.� If you take care to think about your look and how it will go with your bodyArticle Search, you’ll get the glamorous prom look girls dream of.� Plus size girls don’t have to be content with frumpy dresses for prom.� Choose your best look at a specialty prom retailer.

Girl Superheros Ask for Help

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

Girl Superheroes Ask For Help

By Angela Cruz

What is it about life that makes it so difficult for girls? Yes, even today itโ€™s only getting tougher to be a girl. Is it not enough that we have to look good, mother those around us including men, work a professional job but now we are expected to handle it all with ease? We are made to feel weak and pathetic if we ask for help. Why? Because people honestly believe that women are the next superhero.

A superhero is someone with super powers and someone who rescues others. This all came to me when a family member of mine labeled herself as a failure; even though she was college educated, beautiful, a mother of a happy boy, and the sole earner for her house.

Why did she feel like a failure? Simple, she was not good enough in her mind and those that judged her. She was disorganized at work and she lacked an authoritative personality. At home she let the house get messy and she didnโ€™t know how to cook. As a mom she wasnโ€™t spending enough time with her child and with her husband she was often too tired to greet him at the door with a happy smile.

She is my superhero but not because she has super powers and not because she in one who rescues others but because she was strong enough to recognize that she needed rescuing herself. She cried out for help and that is the bravest thing that a girl can do.

Isnโ€™t it time that we as girls say โ€œenough is enough! As professional community members we need to band together to encourage our girls to be happy and that โ€œyouโ€ is enough. We also need to get together to teach our young girls how to ask for help and that perfection is never the expectation.

Tips for Choosing a Baby Girl Name

Sunday, June 29th, 2008

Girl names are so important. You want to choose a name that will serve your new baby girl well in her life. It can be easy to choose a name that sounds cute when your daughter is a baby without thinking about how it will sound when she is grown.

Here are some helpful tips to consider as you begin choosing a baby girl name for your new bundle of joy.

Think about Double Meaning

Many baby girl names are also common words in the English language. For instance Autumn, Opal, April, June and Summer are all wonderful names for your baby girl but they do come with a double meaning. Be sure that you are comfortable choosing a name for your baby girl that will almost assuredly give her a lifetime of explaining her name to people she meets.

Nicknames are Tricky

Especially for girls when it comes to nicknames these can be branding in school. Nicknames like Sticky Vicky or Dizzy Lizzy may be more than you want your daughter to experience in life. Make sure you think about what nicknames your daughter may experience with her given name.

Think Family

Family names may be just the ticket to choosing your baby girlsโ€™ name. If you have a favorite aunt or grandmother passing on her name can be a wonderful way to connect your new daughter with her ancestry.

This is your Baby Girl

Just remember that this is your baby girl and she will have the name you give her all the days of her life. Choose well and have faith that your new daughter will cherish her name.

Girl Power

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

Revive Ophelia? Perhaps itโ€™s time to bury her. And perhaps itโ€™s time to depose the queen bees and all their wanna bees. Letโ€™s leave the odd girls out, ditch the mean girls and skip over the entire thirteenth year.

For those of us trying to raise girls to womanhood in turbulent and conflicted times, there is a plethora of reading and viewing to aide and abet. Never mind the weekly headlines of kidnappings and child molestations. Never mind the misogynistic lyrics and videos that a few short years ago would have been relegated to the porn pages. Ignore even the blockbusters that earn post-pubescent girls diva rights as ditzes, damsels and demons.

Turn instead to the clinical pages of the self-help books and purported parenting bibles. Digest the distressing statistics of teen girls reaping the results of perilously low self-esteem. Witness the anecdotal journeys of the girls next door battling bulimia, anorexia and clinical depression. Suffer the stories of incest, rape and teen pregnancies.

Contemporary girlhood under the microscope of the PHD seems fraught with danger and betrayal. Too many pages of these alarming journals set girls as victims from birth, stepping over Sesame Street to the therapistโ€™s couch. These well-intentioned and minutely researched texts are earnest attempts to explain the pitfalls that face todayโ€™s girls. Most of them are heart-felt. Some are heart-wrenching. Too many, however, offer an extreme reality that most of us will thankfully see only on the periphery. Too many of them depict girls and the women in their lives as embattled heroes in their own tragic dramas. If theyโ€™re not the victims, then theyโ€™re the back-stabbing witches clawing their way to the Cosmo girl images that shout out from the newsstands.

It is true that most of us can relate our own tales of girl bullies in action. Turning the pages of Odd Girl Out:The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls, who doesnโ€™t have a sense of dรฉjร� vu? Watching the comic rendition of Mean Girls in action, donโ€™t we all admit the familiarity? Observing our own girls suffer through the girlhood gauntlet at younger and younger ages is disturbing regardless of its sense of ritual. Those of the double x set can be less than forgiving at times -restless, irrational, moody, impulsive. She may misplace her priorities, suffer petty jealousies and succumb to peer pressure at all ages.

Maybe she is all that. But sheโ€™s also the one whoโ€™s stood up for and by you through the implausible and the impossible. Sheโ€™s forgiven your missteps, rationalized your mistakes. She was the one spitting ginger ale through her nose in the backyard tent and performing hairbrush duets in front of the bedroom mirror. She cuddled closest when the Texas Chain Saw rattled your dreams; shouted loudest when your team made finals, cried the hardest when your dog she swore she never liked, died. She made you feel beautiful long before any man did. Sheโ€™s been at your side for the first crush, the first kiss, the first time. You got your ears pierced together. You tried on make-up, bikinis and bras together. You fawned over the same rock stars, liked the same boy, had a crush on the same teacher. Sheโ€™s been there through broken arms, broken promises, broken hearts. She saw you through your parentsโ€™ divorce. She adopted your family as her own. She was there for the death watch at your fatherโ€™s side. It was she who pulled you through, pregnant and alone, the birth of your son. She kept you sane through the terrible twoโ€™s of your twins, kept you grounded when the company gave you promotion after promotion. She traveled 3,000 miles because the lilt in your voice told her that this time you really would leave him. She sat at 2:00 am, letting you squeeze her hand, while the chemo dripped into your veins.

Itโ€™s true that out there in the world there are mean girls. There always will be. It may even be true that no one will ever hurt you the way a girl can. But our girls hear that enough already. Perhaps itโ€™s time we tell them who else they are โ€“who else they can be. We teach our children enough about the people in the world who may harm them. Itโ€™s time to teach them about the people who will stand by them. Itโ€™s time to turn them onto the every day heroes in their lives, in themselves. Itโ€™s time they tune into the girl power they donโ€™t see on TV.